As a very experienced cuckoldress with cucks in USA, UK and Dubai, I can give you a quite detailed answer. Let your wife choose stages for you from below cuckold stage list and then you fulfill her needs.
Stage 1
You know your wife/partner is having an affair but you pretend that you do not know about it.
Stage 2
You tell your wife/partner that you not only know about her affair but also allow it.
Stage 3
You fully support your wife engaging sexual activities with different males outside
Stage 4
You ask your wife to tell her sexual partner that you allow their affair and allow them to stay at home during your absence.
Stage 5
You allow your wife/partner’s sexual partner become a live-in regardless you are at home or not.
Stage 6
You participate in sexual game between your wife and her sexual partner so it finally becomes a game of 3.
Stage 7
You 3 are fed up with average sexual play and kinky humiliation play begins to take place.
Stage 8
You allow the number of your wife’s lover to change from 1 person to multiple people.
Stage 9
You are ok with the fact you wife is pregnant with other lover’s baby and still stay marriage with her.
Stage 10
You raise your wife and other guy’s children.